Showing posts with label book reviews (grownups). Show all posts
Showing posts with label book reviews (grownups). Show all posts

Sunday, November 15, 2015

Becoming Nicole

Wayne Maines was a man's man who was raised in a rural community with conservative, moral values. His wife, Kelly, came from a similar background. After multiple miscarriages, the opportunity to adopt fell into their laps. And when they found out they were having twins, they couldn't have been happier.

Wayne dreamed of the day when his identical twin sons, Jonas and Wyatt, would be old enough to experience the male bonding that goes along with hunting and fishing. Jonas seemed right on track to help him fulfill this dream. But from the age of 2, Wyatt began to show signs that the dream may never come true. As the years passed, it became apparent that Wyatt was not like most boys. Though Kelly followed Wyatt's lead and supported him every step of the way, Wayne just could not bring himself to terms with the idea that one of his sons may actually be his daughter. Until he realized that he really had no choice.

Through bullying, discrimination, court orders, lawsuits, counseling, medical interventions and family growth, Wyatt became Nicole, the girl she had always been.

In my opinion, the one weakness of the book is the way the author refers to Nicole as being "born a boy." She never was a boy. She was assigned male at birth but was always a girl. Becoming Nicole, by Amy Ellis Nutt, is a look at the transformation of a family, and in a way, a community and even a country. It also is a great source of information regarding the science of being transgender and the way the American culture and other cultures view transgender people.

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Etiquette and Espionage


I've written about Gail Carriger's series The Parasol Protectorate here before. Just to be clear; I'm a fan. If you're looking for some clever, adulty, plot driven fun and you're into alternative histories with supernatural romance, you can do no better. And that's a surprisingly big field, so...

Anyway, for those of you who, like me, were sad when the series came to an end, you'll be delighted to know that there's a new series of prequels beginning with Etiquette and Espionage, out this month. I was lucky enough to get my hands on an advance copy and I devoured it in one sitting. It's even better than the other books, reminding me that when authors are writing with a little restraint, choosing subtlety and innuendo over explicivity (I officially dub that word existent), the result is often much deeper, more tender, more heart stirring and just as sophisticated as adult-themed books.

In Etiquette and Espionage, book the first of Finishing School, Sophronia is enrolled in a highly regarded finishing school where, she is surprised to learn, she will be instructed in the fine arts of espionage and defense and well as curtsying and tea service. It turns out she has a certain flair for spy work, and will excel as long as she can keep herself out of trouble (at least, out of the wrong sort of trouble.) In this Victorian era romp, a steamship is the home of a girls school and is only accessible by power of werewolf leaping, the head mistress may or may not be aware that she is bringing up a horde of young ladies destined to be spies, and some of those ladies must overthrow secret plots to ruin parties via fraternity stunts. 'Tis a wild ride, and I highly recommend it to any reader 12 and up! If you still don't believe me, watch the book trailer and enjoy!

Monday, October 15, 2012

Scream Free Parenting

I have found myself losing my temper with my 4-year-old recently, and I do NOT want to get into the pattern of yelling at him. A friend recommended Scream Free Parenting: The Revolutionary Approach to Raising Your Kids By Keeping Your Cool, by Hal Edward Runkel. And now I recommend it to you.

A more appropriate title would probably be "Emotionally Reactive-Free Parenting" but that doesn't quite roll off the tongue as well as "Scream Free." Basically, Runkel uses the word "scream" to represent any kind of uncalm reaction toward your child, be it screaming, avoiding, overcompensating, giving in, etc.
 
He posits that by focusing on yourself, you can become a better parent. Focusing on yourself means looking at how you can change your behavior to remain calm in a situation with your child that would normally cause you to scream. It also means creating space for yourself, separate from your child. It also means taking care of your own mental and physical health.
 
Within this framework, he gives tips for how to set and enforce consequences but use empathy at the same time. He uses a few personal examples and lots of examples from families he has worked with in his counseling practice.
 
Very helpful and very practical.

Sunday, September 16, 2012

Splendors and Glooms, by Laura Amy Schlitz

How do I even begin to describe this book? Like other books I've read and enjoyed, it has magic, grief and loss, suspense, creepiness, some pretty scary bad guys, and some nice kids just trying to get by. That's not new. But unlike any other book I've read, it combines all those things in a unique way while adding puppetry to the mix, and it becomes so much more. The ultimate creepiness for me is children being changed into little marionettes; they are completely paralyzed, and completely conscious, relying on others to give them movement. This is not a book for the faint of heart. Though the story is nothing like Harry Potter, for me it still brings that series to mind. If your child has read Harry Potter, then he or she is ready for Splendors and Glooms, by Newbery Medal Winner Laura Amy Schlitz.

Monday, April 16, 2012

Titanic: 100 Years Later

Most of you may already know that April 15th was the 100 year anniversary of the sinking of the R.M.S. Titanic.  In honor of this historic event, why not stop by the library and reflect upon this moment in time through one of our displays of Titanic books and reproduced memorabilia?  Adult books and materials are on display in the library lobby and children's and teen books are on display in the children's room in the cube display located next to the Puett Room.  There is also another display on the 2nd floor next to the adult reference desk that highlights new adult titles, which also includes a bibliography of these new books.

Here's some of my favorite Titanic books for youth:
Titanic Sinks! by Barry Denenberg (for ages 8 & up)
This recently published book (2011) presents the true story of the building and launching of the Titanic and offers a "you are there" feeling when the steamship struck an iceberg and sank on her maiden voyage.

Inside the Titanic (A Giant Cutaway Book) by Ken Marschall (for ages 6 & up)
Cut-away illustrations feature stories of real-life children who sailed aboard the Titanic on the night of its disaster in the North Atlantic.  I could look at the illustrations of this book for hours, as it's so enthralling to study each room displayed on the ship.

Voyage on the Great Titanic: The Diary of Margaret Ann Brady, R.M.S. Titanic, 1912  by Ellen Emerson White (ages 8 & up)
From the Dear America Series, Margaret Ann describes in her diary how she leaves her lonely life in a London orphanage to become a companion to a wealthy American woman, sails on the Titanic, and experiences its sinking.  This is a wonderful historical fiction read for chapter book readers that has enough simplicity without being too overly detailed.

And on my reading list: The Watch That Ends the Night: Voices from the Titanic by Allan Wolf (for ages 12 & up)
Told through multiple voices, this recreated fictionalized accound of the 1912 sinking of the Titanic as it is observed by millionaire John Jacob Astor, a beautiful young Lebanese refugee finding first love, "Unsinkable" Molly Brown, Captain E.J. Smith, and others including the iceberg itself.   


Here's some of my favorite Titanic books for adult readers:
The Last Dinner on the Titanic by Rick Archbold
This offers an on-board tour with fascinating descriptions and anecdotes, archival photographs and memorabilia, and a host of evocative period paintings and illustrations, complete with directions for hosting a Titanic-themed dinner.

Lost Liners by Robert D. Ballard
This coffetable style book contains a great number of illustrations and paintings.  It's worth taking a browse through.

And on my reading list: The Dressmaker: A Novel by Kate Alcott
A historical fiction book about a spirited young dressmaker who survives the sinking of the Titanic only to find herself embroiled in the tumultuous aftermath of the tragedy.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Ready Player One

I read a lot of kids' books, but I sometimes also take the time to read an adult book. And every once in awhile, I read one that I think our blog followers may enjoy and I just have to share. From Ernest Cline, the creator of the movie Fanboys, comes the novel Ready Player One.

It's 2044. Wade Watts (AKA Parzival) is 18 when he becomes a multi-billionaire. James Halliday, the creator of the Oasis, the virtual reality world where most people spend most of their time, died and left a will: whoever is the first to find his "Easter egg" in the Oasis will win his entire fortune. Halliday, who was born in the 1970s, had an obsessive nostalgia for everything 80s: video games, movies, music, TV, books, etc. So Wade Watts also develops this obsession. After years of searching, it finally pays off but not without an abundance of real and virtual life-threatening danger. (Don't worry, I didn't give away the ending by telling you that Wade is the winner; he tells you that at the very beginning of the book).

Between the references to all the things I loved about the 80s (and many things I never knew about), and the fast, exciting pace of the story, I could not put it down!



Monday, July 11, 2011

Author Talk: Travel to Prehistoric Times This Month With Jean Auel

Did you read bestselling author Jean Auel’s novel The Clan of the Cave Bear as a young adult, like I did? I remember the book as a great mix of steamy soap opera, survival story and fascinating historical detail about the Ice Age and a time when both Neanderthals and Cro-Magnons existed simultaneously. Ayla, a little orphaned Cro-Magnon girl (i.e., modern human), is adopted by a Neanderthal clan and grows to maturity. Her more modern ways due to her different brain structure create conflict at times with the clan. The Clan of the Cave Bear is the first of six books, and the long anticipated last book in the Earth’s Children series, The Land of Painted Caves, was just published this year.
I’m excited to tell you that author Jean Auel is speaking at the Tigard Library this month, on Friday, July 15th at 7 p.m. in the Community Room! Did you know she lives in Portland? Auel conducted extensive research for the novels, and her vast knowledge infuses the books’ descriptions about what the characters looked like, ate, wore, and thought, and about the landscape, flora and fauna. Some of her practical research about skills such as fire making, spear throwing, and stone tool creation was done in the high desert of Central Oregon. We invite you to come and listen to her speak about the series and her latest book on Friday. Copies of her books will be for sale by a local book store, and Auel will be signing books after the talk.

Monday, May 16, 2011

YA for Grownups

I like my books with plenty of drama, some mystery and a hint of romance. I also need a book that I can read quickly between work, kiddo care and sleep. And I have to have a great plot; I have little patience for lots of background with no action. That's why I love Young Adult fiction. There's a whole group of us: grownups who read books published for teens. Want to give it a try?

Chime by Franny Billingsley. Briony can see the Old Ones who haunt the Swampsea. When her sister becomes sick with the Swamp Cough, she knows she must confront her witchy-past and risk losing her life to save her sister. A dark and beautiful tale.

Revolution by Jennifer Donnelly. Angry and depressed after the death of her brother, Andi just wants to play her music. Instead she has to finish a major project or she won't graduate high school. A discovery belonging to a musician from the time of French Revolution provides insight into Andi's life and a young revolutionary.

The Knife of Never Letting Go by Patrick Ness. Flash forward to planet colonization. A plague has hit the settlements, killing the women and infecting the men so that they constantly hear each others thoughts. One day Todd hears something different out there...silence and discovers a girl. The truth leads him on a wild chase.

Monday, April 25, 2011

Extreme Parenting

You may have heard about the controversy caused by the recently published Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, by Amy Chua. I had to see what the fuss was all about. I thought I might read a chapter or two and then get so upset that I would refuse to finish it. I have to admit, I actually liked the book and finished it within about 2 days! I can't say I agree with her parenting techniques (in fact I find some of them quite appalling), but the book itself was well-written, funny, and offered a view into a completely different way of parenting than I have ever considered. I expected Chua to be a know-it-all (well, I guess she kind of is) who was so entrenched in her way of thinking that I would just find the book infuriating. She actually is quite self-deprecating and is able to look at herself with a sense of humor. My guess is she probably wouldn't actually change much with the way she raised her girls if she had it to do all over again, but she was actually much more likeable than I expected. I would be curious to find out what and how her daughters are doing 10 years from now. In the meantime, her oldest daughter has started a blog. If you want a quick, entertaining read, I recommend this book.

Friday, April 1, 2011

Other People's Lives

I always find it interesting to read about people I have heard of and find out what their lives were like before and after they became famous. I recently finished Unbearable Lightness: A Story of Loss and Gain, a memoir by Portia deRossi (of Ally McBeal and Arrested Development fame) about her eating disorder, and I found it surprisingly good! Yes, I actually get a chance to read books written for adults, too!

Now I'm on to Amelia Lost: The Life and Disappearance of Amelia Earhart, by Candace Fleming. I just started it last night and I'm already about halfway through it. It is a quick, engaging read all about Amelia's life up until she disappeared. The author intersperses chapters about the day she disappeared with chapters about her life leading up to that day. There are also lots of insets with interesting little tidbits about things discussed in the main text (i.e., Morse code, how to fly the kind of plane Amelia flew, a picture of Amelia's pilot's license). The reading level is probably about 3rd grade and up, but it will capture the interest of older kids as well.

Other Juvenile Biographies/Autobiographies your kids might enjoy:

Monday, March 14, 2011

WWI Fiction


Until the last two books I have read, I realized I don't think I had ever read any fiction books on World War I. Now it just happened that I read two in a row. One adult book and one children's book. It was interesting to read about this difficult subject with two different audiences in mind. I highly recommend both books.

If you haven't read Ken Follett's historical fiction for adults, you should. It is quite an undertaking to read one of them, but it's worth it. His latest novel about WWI is called Fall of Giants.

I usually try to read the Newbery Award winners, and this year it was Moon Over Manifest, by Clare Vanderpool. Sometimes I read the Newbery books, and I don't actually think they're that great. This one I read and I absolutely loved.

You should try reading the adult book, have your child read the kids' book, and then compare notes. It might bring up some interesting discussion about an important time in history.








Saturday, January 22, 2011

Fresh Reviews

Want to see what other library readers think about a book, movie or anything else you check out from the library? Like writing reviews? You can do both through the library's catalog using Chilifresh.

To the left of a title you'll see one of two options...write a review (that means no one's reviewed it yet) or Reader Rating (number of stars) and the number of reviews. It's one little way to share your feedback with your library community. We'd love to know what you thought, so just click through. If you need any help getting started, just let us know and we'll show you how!

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Adults love teen lit too!

August 24 has almost arrived, and with it Mockingjay, the third and final installment of the Hunger Games trilogy. Are you one of the 530 library patrons that have already placed their holds? Are you so overcome with excitement you can barely function? Well, you're not the only one. According to this New York Times article, lots of very smart grown ups love reading teen lit. Well, any librarian coulda' told you that. As the article states, “A lot of adult literature is all art and no heart...There’s a freshness [in teen lit]; it’s engaging. Y.A. authors aren’t writing about middle-aged anomie or ­disappointed people.”

Talk to your youth librarian today to get great reading recommendations for not only your kids, but your own sweet self, as well!

Thursday, May 27, 2010

For all you Brat Pack fans...

This is just for grown-ups. Are any of you big Molly Ringwald fans like me? She was my idol in middle school and I have a soft spot for all her teen movies and all the other movies with those same actors that came out at the same time. John Cusack is another one whose movies I love. Say Anything was the start of my crush. In spite of the horrific cover, which my husband actually pointed out to me is a pretty good illustration of what movie posters were like back then, I highly recommend You Couldn't Ignore Me If You Tried: The Brat Pack, John Hughes, and Their Impact on a Generation, by Susannah Gora. I couldn't put it down. It is a long book with small type and no pictures, but I finished it in 3 days. If you want all the behind-the scenes details of the making of all those movies and want to know what those stars have been up to, you have to read this book!

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Reading Your Kid's Books

Some of my favorite summer reads for grownups were written for children (or at least, that's where they're shelved). I may be biased towards children's books because of my job, but I'd like to think that these are great reads regardless of the original intended audience. Spend your afternoon with one of these super summer tales.

My One Hundred Adventures by Polly Horvath. While most of us dream of weekend trips to the beach, 12-year-old Jane lives there year-round with her free spirited poet mother and her three siblings. Jane's summer becomes more than she bargained for when she ends up on Bible delivery trips with her pastor, meeting her mother's ex-boyfriends, and babysitting a group of unruly kids.

The Penderwicks: a Summer Tale of Four Sisters, Two Rabbits, and a Very Interesting Boy by Jeanne Birdsall. *Sigh* This is one of those old fashioned summer tales that's just pitch-perfect. Four sisters, ages 4 through 12, spend the summer with their widowed father in a cottage on the estate of a local boy and his snobbish mother. Adventure, young love, and that feeling of summer days.

A Long Way from Chicago by Richard Peck. Peck has a knack for writing historical fiction like he's sitting right there in front of you spinning a tale while you both relax on a summer evening. The Great Depression may be happening, but that doesn't make life in less exciting for a young boy on his annual summer visit to his larger-than-life grandmother.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

It's Garden Time!

The weather is warming up, the days are getting longer, the soil is ready, and it's time to start planning the family garden. We've got some great family gardening idea books in the parents collection at the library. Here's a few of them:



Family Garden by Lia Leendertz. A nicely organized and clearly presented
book from DK.




101 Kid-Friendly Plants by Cindy Krezel. Contains over 100 plants that are safe to use around children.



by Karen Leibreich. Published by locally renowned nature publisher, Timber Press. Includes growing vegetables, fruit, and herbs.

Children's Gardens: Twelve Theme Gardens for Families by Edwin L. Howard. A nice little book with theme garden ideas for your backyard.

A Child's Garden: 60 Ideas to Make Any Garden Come Alive for Children by Molly Dannenmaier. I just love this book with its beautiful photos and can't help but wish I had these theme gardens when I was growing up.

Gardening with Children Recently written and published by the Brooklyn Botanical Garden

Hollyhocks and Honeybees: Garden Projects for Young Children by Sara Starbuck. Includes some great activities for youngsters in teaching them about gardening and nature.

And let's not forget the kids!

Here's some of my favorite garden themed picture books for you to share with your little ones:


Planting a Rainbow by Lois Ehlert
A mother and child plant a rainbow of flowers in the family garden. This book is also great for learning colors.



Muncha! Muncha! Muncha! by Candace Fleming
Mr. McGreely plants a garden he has always dreamed about but then rabbits persistenly come into his garden and eat his vegetables.
Up, Down, and Around by Katherine Ayres. This book has fun illustrations showing how different plants grow down into the soil, how vines wrap around, and how peppers grow up. A great book that plays on words and an excellent choice for developing early literacy vocabulary skills in preschoolers. This book also makes a fun read-alound.

The Gardener's Alphabet by Mary Azarian. This is an alphabet book that features words associated with gardening, such as bulbs, compost, digging, insects, and weeds.


Flower Garden by Eve Bunting. A young girl and her father shop at their local store to purchase flowers and come home to create a beautiful flower pot for mother's birthday.

The library also has a large collection of gardening and landscaping books located in the adult non-fiction area on the second floor of the library. If you have any home gardening questions, be sure to contact your local Oregon State University Extension Office, or visit their website at http://extenstion.oregonstate.edu/gardening for an array of gardening advice such as weed and insect management, sustainable gardening paractices, and treating plant diseases, all of which are based on scientifically unbiased research for the Pacific Northwest.

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Carl Hiaasen: Fun for the Whole Family

My most recent favorite author is Carl Hiaasen. His books are entertaining, quick reads and I LOVE them. There is a definite environmental focus in most of his books (although not all), many of them are mystery/suspense, and most of them take place in Florida. He has some bizarre and somewhat twisted plots in most of his books, and they are all great fun to read. Some of his more quirky characters make appearances in multiple books, but he doesn't write sequels, and you don't need to read his books in any kind of order. He writes for adults, teens, and older elementary kids. Here is just a sampling:

Adults
Basket Case
Nature Girl
Skinny Dip
Stormy Weather

Teens
Scat

Teens/Kids
Flush
Hoot

Thursday, January 8, 2009

The Other Revolutionary War

While the patriots were fighting the British for their independence and the idea that all men are created equal, slaves in the colonies watched with no hope of gaining the same freedom. Distinguishing "good guys" from "bad guys" is not that easy. These two stories are great glimpses into this time period and perspective.

Chains by Laurie Halse Anderson follows a thirteen year old girl Isabel who is sold to cruel merchant family with loyalist ties in New York City. Isabel is encouraged to spy for the rebels in exchange for a chance at freedom. This heart-wrenching tale follows her as she tries to decide who to trust, believe and help. The realistic violence pays tribute to this girl's difficult life and undying spirit. Note: This is the first book in a series.

The Astonishing Life of Octavian Nothing: The Pox Party by M.T. Anderson has been called a work of genius by some and a book not written for teens because of its complexity by others. This is no light tale, rather requiring a commitment on the part of the reader to read every word actively. Anderson, writing completely in the language of the time, follows Octavian Nothing, a young man taught and trained by scientists...as a science experiment. This complex story is both infuriating (meaning I often argued, ahem, with the characters) and intelligent. Sequel: The Kingdom on the Waves.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

New Homeschooling Resources

We have many resources to help homeschooling families at the library. You can locate these in the Parents collection under the call # 371.042. Here are some new noteworthy titles that you'll want to peruse if you are planning your own homeschooling program, or already have an established program:

Homeschooler's Guide to Free Teaching Aids, 10th edition (2008-2009), published by Educators Progress Service. Contains over 1,000 free teaching aids to use in your homeschooling program, all arranged by subject.


Homeschooler's Guide to Free Videotapes, 10th edition (2008-2009), published by Educators Progress Service. Contains over 1,000 free videos and DVD's to use in your homeschooling program, all arranged by subject.


The Homeschooling Book of Lists by Michael Leppert and Mary Leppert, published by Jossey-Bass, 2008. Contains homeschooling models and methods, lesson plans, and many valuable resources that can be used in your program.


Homeschool Resource Guide for Oregon published by the Oregon Home Education Network, 2008. Contains legal information, resources, statewide groups, alternative education, resources for special needs students, and a list of contact information for approved testers.


Friday, December 5, 2008

Balderdash, Jibber Jabber, and Nonsense

Daphna and Dex, almost 13-year-old twins, are looking forward to their very important birthday. But their dad has just returned from a book scouting expedition, and he seems a bit distracted. They're not even sure he will remember the birthday that he has always talked about as being so important. Upon his return, Daphna takes her dad to her new favorite place: a huge labyrinth of a bookstore. He takes with him a mysterious book that he discovered on his expedition, and they meet a very old, mysterious man at the bookstore. This man seems to have some special powers over her dad, and seems to really want this book. Daphna is not sure why, as it just looks to be a book with a bunch of nonsense words to her. Daphna, Dex, and their dad wind up in a heap of trouble, all because of this weird book of nonsense. Will they be able to celebrate their 13th birthday as they always thought they would? Will they be able to escape with their lives and sanity? Will they discover the meaning behind the book?

If you and/or your kids are fans of the Harry Potter, Golden Compass or Molly Moon series', you will really enjoy The Book of Nonsense. It is the first of what will be a series of 5 books by local author, David Michael Slater.