As adults, we have come across many problems throughout our lifetime and have developed skills to deal with them. What about children who face a problem for the first time? This can be difficult for us adults as we see a child we love struggle. How do we help kids overcome this challenge? The
Search Institute has developed a list of useful tips when dealing with children who face a problem. Use these tips to help you think about how you support youngsters in solving challenges they encounter. To learn more about the Search Institute,
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Encourage
"playing with" the problem. Encourage
young people to throw out lots of ideas, make conjectures, and consider
many different possibilities--even some that are outlandish. Look at the
problem from many perspectives. This flexible thinking is an important
skill for forming better solutions than the first that come to mind.
Guide
the young person to break a big problem into its parts. Then focus on aspects of the problem that the young
person doesn't understand or that seem like they have more potential to be
solved.
Ask
the young person to work through the problem out loud. Not only does this help you coach the young person,
but it also slows down the thinking process.
Model
and talk about the problem solving process, rather than focusing on getting the right answer. Talk
through the steps you take and ask the young person to do the same so that
it's easier to learn.
Have
the student work through the problem on her or his own. Give only as much assistance as you need to when the
young person is really stuck. And when you do so, limit your guidance to
questions or suggestions that will help the young person move through a
specific issue without solving the whole problem for her or him.
Ask
open-ended questions. Instead
of, "Do you think that will fit in there?" you might ask a more
open-ended question, such as, "What do you think it will take to get
everything to fit inside?" Ask follow-up questions that encourage the
young person to articulate their problem-solving process. This not only
helps you learn and guide, but it reinforces the skills.
Give positive reinforcement when young people overcome an obstacle or master a
new problem-solving skill. Be specific in highlighting what they have done or
learned.