"The playing adult steps sideward into another reality; the playing child advances forward to new stages of mastery." Erik H. Erikson.
As a child, my friend and I passed our free time at home doing what looked like nothing much at all. Laying around in the grass, collecting wild flowers, rocks, sticks, pine cones, assorted snakes and hundreds and hundreds of woolly bears! Which by the way, got out in my bedroom! But that’s another story.
Truly one of our favorite childhood summer wanderings involved making mud pies. One summer we meticulously made and decorated hundreds of chocolaty colored mud confections with my father's shaving cream. We added flowers from my mother's garden and the most perfect rocks and sticks from our collections carefully adorned each gooey top.
We discussed everything about our beautiful creations. How many layers they should have? Should we use her father's worm mix?
Or better yet, his worms for the filling! Should we hire the neighborhood boy we had a crush on for help? Who should be in charge of turning off the hose and digging the dirt? And of course, who should be the boss of the shop?
Our freewheeling unencumbered play allowed us to construct the most successful neighborhood bakery in summer vacation history! As we added each delicious ingredient to our make-believe play: imagination, concentration, cognitive skills, internal verbalization, conversation, persistence, problem-solving and growing task building skills we made up our own rules.
We sold our sunbaked goodies to the neighbor kids who paid with marbles, cool colored rubber bands
and gum wrapper chains. Social networking at its finest.
Our bold entry into the business world was constructed with endless scenarios and conversations that lasted all summer long.
Little did we know that as we surmounted each challenge of our imaginative enterprise, we were learning how to self-regulate our own behaviors which is an essential pre-literacy ingredient. We enthusiastically contributed to the foundation of our own house of higher learning and ultimately our ability to read.
Who knew you could do all this playing with mud pies!
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